Making the Most of a Day Off When You Have Kids
Work out first whether the kids are coming, because a day with them and a day without need opposite plans.
Work out first whether the kids are coming, because a day with them and a day without need opposite plans.
Decide indoors or outdoors first, then how long you want the day to be, and the rest of it picks itself.
Name the date first, keep the first one small, and pick something with a shape to it rather than a long sit down.
Take fewer, take them earlier, and get yourself into some of them instead of filming a dark room from the back.
These records are not better than new ones, but you have thirty years of your own life attached to them.
Build the outfit for the room you will be in for six hours, then solve the fifteen minutes outside separately.
Water before bed, a real breakfast, daylight early and a short nap will do more than a whole day on the sofa.
Decide the number before you decide the plan, and the whole day gets a great deal easier to say yes to.
Naming one date and asking for a straight yes or no will get you further than any poll ever has.
Give the day one fixed thing you have actually committed to, and move the admin to either side of it.
Agree a meeting point and a way home before you go in, keep a loose count of each other, and nobody leaves on their own.
The hard part is the handover, not the night. Sort the childcare properly and everything after it is just deciding what to wear.
Six hours of prime time, finished by the evening, with the rest of the weekend still yours to do something with.
Decide how you are getting back before you go in, while everyone is together and thinking clearly, and the end of the day sorts itself.
One person decides, everybody else agrees, and money changes hands early. Groups that vote on things never leave the chat.
Pick the room where the crowd came up on the same records as you, and the whole question stops mattering by the second tune.
Treat it as three blocks rather than one long push, eat before you go, and sit down before your legs ask you to.
The honest test is not which one you fancy, it is what you need the next morning to look like.
The music and the crowd are much as you left them; the tickets, the payments and the finish time are the parts that moved on.
Not a writer guessing. This is what 113,045 listener votes say still turns a room, and two records have never taken a vote against.
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